malabagaa

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Last post over 3 years ago šŸ™ˆ

I’ll be honest: growing up doesn’t get well with gaming.. why whole months pass and I can’t even manage to play once.. it sucks.
I keep thinking Ā«I’d really like to play nowĀ», Ā«perhaps tonight I could be able to play a littleĀ» and such.. but most of times it just ends with me going to bed disappointed :\

I still read from time to time what you write, as it’s always interesting, but I’m not as regular as before; and, of course, I do not have enough time to read it all (otherwise I would be playing) =P

I’ve also started playing games outside Steam, that’s why it seems I’ve been playing even less than how it really is. (not much more tho)

Anyway, in my last post I mentioned how I had reached 4500 achievements (yes, that was in 2019).. and today I’m telling you I’ve just obtained the 5000th! 🄳

It’s called You Have a Great and it’s from Muse Dash. Have a look at it:

2023-04-16

Not much, but it’s honest work — some would say.

Adelion

If you don’t mind the question: Where is the issue with gaming time? I am 38 right now and still find lots of time for playing. Granted my girlfriend is pretty chill about it. I think as long as you don’t have kids, it shouldn’t be that much of an issue.

Though, I don’t know, there might be a lot of reasonable things which can consume time as well (Buying/Building a house, bad work times, sickness, other time consuming hobbies, …).

malabagaa

Well, you said most of the issues yourself..
At work we are kind of understaffed, so I’m working overtime almost daily; with my gf, we are actively looking for a house (without much success); also, contrary to your, my gf ā€œhatesā€ videogames, even if I have to say that lately seems she tolerates more when I play, compared to before. And, of course, there’s all the house tasks to do, cleaning, cooking and so on, plus the human interactions that are needed to live in this society. I’ve been able to carve out some time to play by organizing tasks and sleeping less.
If you have any advice, please, I’m all ears :)

devonrv

I’ve also started playing games outside Steam

You’re allowed to make posts about those, too. I’ve done it before, and I’ve seen other people do it on this site before as well. In fact, I’m playing a PS3 game right now, and you bet I’m gonna make a post about it after I beat it.

why whole months pass and I can’t even manage to play once

If it helps, maybe next time you should treat it like a vacation: plan ahead, take off work, let your family know ahead of time that you’ll be unavailable for a few weeks, etc., THEN activate Game Pass (emergencies are obviously an exception, but hopefully, they won’t last the whole month).

malabagaa

I know, I’ve seen them.. It’s just that I finished close to nothing šŸ˜…
The most played game it’s Genshin Impact.. well, that’s until my wifi started to stop working whenever I launch it. Also, I’m a super ā€œignorantā€ about it (I play it like a classic RPG, but I’ve noticed that there are many other things to do.. for example, I was with the starting party until not too long ago, didn’t know you could use wish to get new chars.. I thought you’d unlock them through the story as you did with the first ones.)

That’s also something I’m wondering about.. take some days off work from time to time just to play :)
Luckily, my backlog is huge, so I don’t need Game Pass or similar.

Andy

Feel you! Have same situation: a lot of work, even outside of work; child; wife that doesn’t think it is ok to spend time gaming… But want to inspire you: there is a chance you will find a balance in lifeVSgaming issue. I almost did. Mainly by refusing completely online gaming (all this MMO-something, even shooters, are huge time thieves) and being more careful with games I choose to play. Also a real game changer was Steam Deck - perfect for short gaming sessions.

So keep trying and find best practices for yourself. You can do it šŸ’Ŗ

malabagaa

I hope the price of Steam Deck will drop in the future, as it is a bit too high for me atm.. but, yes, it does seems interesting/useful

Thanks, same to you šŸ’Ŗ